It is natural for any person coming out of a divorce to feel sad or depressed. Experts and individuals who have been through the process agree, while the short-term outlook may feel gloomy, it is a time to take care of yourself and chart a new, positive course for your life. By avoiding negative behavior and not feeling sorry for yourself, you will feel physically healthier and mentally ready to take on new challenges in your life.

Planning for Your Best Post-Divorce Life

Whether your divorce was a contentious battle or an amicable parting, you can seize the moment to reflect and move on in a positive manner. You owe it to yourself and your children to work toward the best possible future.

With this in mind, here are some steps you can take post-divorce to build a better road ahead:

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During a divorce, the division of marital assets represents one of the most overwhelming aspects. Often, the fate of the marital home will be of utmost importance to both spouses. For couples with two or more properties, the divorce process can become more complex. To ensure that your interests are protected in a divorce, it is important that you work with a trusted and experienced attorney.

Property Division in an Illinois Divorce

In Illinois, joint marital property is divided between the spouses in an equitable manner. This means that the property and assets that the couple acquired while they were married will be split in a fair manner, but not necessarily equally. When determining an equitable distribution, the court will look at many factors, including the income and debt contributions of each spouse, the length of the marriage, the earning potential of both spouses, their age and health, the overall value of the assets being divided, the lifestyle of the spouses, and childcare costs. They will also take into account any prenuptial or postnuptial agreements that designated non-marital assets or made decisions about spousal support.

For a second home or other properties, if it was purchased by the couple during their marriage and before separation occurred, it would be part of the joint marital assets and subject to equitable distribution. If it was acquired before the marriage by one spouse or if one spouse received it as a gift or inheritance, the house would be considered non-marital property and not subject to division. However, if the other spouse contributed in any way to increase the value of the property, they may be reimbursed for their contribution.

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In recent years, the rate of couples over the age of 50 getting divorced has continued to grow. With a divorce later in life, couples are faced with different or more pronounced challenges than younger couples. They may not have to worry about decisions on child support payments or child custody arrangements, but older couples have generally accumulated more assets and are closer to retirement, placing greater importance on those factors.

Four Issues of Importance for Divorcing Older Couples

For divorcing couples who are closer to retirement and have more significant financial assets, it is important to work with a law firm with experience in gray divorces and the complex challenges they present.

Here are four common issues that couples face when they get divorced near retirement:

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After a divorce, the financial circumstances of both former spouses can change dramatically from their married life. During the divorce process, various factors go into determining whether one spouse will receive financial support from the other after the divorce is finalized. Factors considered by the court to determine whether spousal maintenance, also known as spousal support or alimony, will be awarded, include each spouse’s income, financial needs, present and future earning capacity, age, health, job skills, and the accustomed standard of living during the marriage. The length and amount of maintenance are based on both spouses’ income and how long they were married. The final payment terms are set forth in the final divorce decree. However, there are certain qualifying events that will bring an end to any spousal maintenance payments.

Changes That Will End Spousal Support in Illinois

Among the notable events that will end spousal support payments is when the ex-spouse who is receiving the payments gets remarried or begins cohabitating with another partner, unless the spouses agreed otherwise in their final divorce agreement. The support terminates on the date of the remarriage or cohabitation, and the paying spouse does not need to go to court to get the payments stopped. The receiving spouse must provide at least 30 days’ notification before the marriage. However, the paying spouse is still responsible for any payments due.

If the paying spouse gets remarried, it does not have an effect on the support obligation. However, if the payor now has another family to support, that may be taken into account by the court if he or she seeks a modification to the payments.

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A spouse cheating can irrevocably impact a marriage and can lead many couples to divorce. For victims of an unfaithful husband or wife, emotions can run high, and focusing on the legal process of divorce can be understandably difficult. To provide the guidance that you need during a divorce from a cheating spouse, it is helpful to have a trusted lawyer by your side who can help you understand the process and focus on building a better future for you.

When Cheating Does and Does Not Affect a Divorce

When a divorce is caused by or involves infidelity, most divorcing spouses take one of two routes. They can either resolve to work together to cooperatively end the marriage or allow the infidelity to cause more drama and conflict. Our lawyers can handle either scenario and try to keep the focus on the practical matters of the divorce while being to your emotional needs.

While infidelity can potentially create a contentious atmosphere, the cheating spouse cannot be punished by the court or receive less of the couple’s marital assets than they would have otherwise been awarded simply due to being unfaithful. The court must follow the normal procedures for determining and approving marital property division and spousal support, if needed. 

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In the wake of a divorce, the final divorce judgment or decree will spell out both parents’ parental responsibilities and schedules for parenting time. While the plan considers the best interests of the children and the situation of the parents at the time of the divorce, the law recognizes that circumstances can change. The plans may be modified when significant changes occur in the lives of the parents or the children, including the relocation of one of the parents.

Relocation Requirements and Considerations in Illinois

Any move has the potential to impact the relationship between a child and their parents. If you are the parent who has the majority of parenting time or if you and your ex-spouse share parenting time equally, you must ask the court and the other parent for permission to relocate.

The statutory definition of a relocation is:

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For anyone going through a divorce, it can be an uncertain and unsettling time. This feeling can be even more intense for small business owners, who are not only concerned with the end of their marriage, but also the uncertain future of their business. If you are a business owner approaching a divorce, here are some basic items that will help you start to plan.

Businesses as Marital Property

There are a few different scenarios that can determine if a business qualifies as marital property and therefore would be subject to division during a divorce. If the business was started during the marriage, at least part of it will likely qualify as marital property. For businesses that were started before marriage, any growth in value or assets that occurred during the marriage could also be considered marital property. In both cases, it does not matter if the business is only in one spouse’s name or if only one spouse was involved in the operations of the business. However, if the spouses signed a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement including the business and its assets, it may be protected.

Determining the Value of a Business

For both parties in the divorce, an important aspect to determine is the value of the business. There are financial professionals who can work to determine the correct value of the business, the potential for growth, and if applicable, each spouse’s percentage of business equity. Both spouses may have their own experts who reach different values and may be called to testify during the divorce proceedings about their methods.

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Many marital disagreements and eventually divorces are caused by financial issues. This can be amplified during a divorce when matters of property and asset division, spousal support, and child support payments all hinge on correct and complete accounting of the couple’s marital estate. This should include all assets and debts as well as information about both spouses’ income and business value. This can be an even larger issue during a high-asset divorce, including those with substantial investment and retirement accounts.

If you suspect your spouse is hiding assets to prevent them from being divided in your divorce, you need to take action and let your divorce attorney know as soon as possible.  

Common Ways of Hiding Assets in a Divorce

Here are some of the most commonly used methods that spouses use to hide assets before or during a divorce:

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Signing a prenuptial agreement before you walk down the aisle and say your “I do’s” may not seem like the most romantic idea. A lot of couples have the idea that a prenuptial agreement amounts to preparing for a divorce before you have even managed to get married. However, this is not the case. A prenuptial agreement in Illinois can do more than decide who gets what in a divorce. It can protect you during the marriage, and it can also serve you well in the event that your marriage lasts until one of you has passed away. Aside from that, it is a very practical idea. If you and your spouse-to-be are considering using a prenuptial agreement, you should both be represented by your own attorneys. 

Why Should Every Couple Have a Prenuptial Agreement?

It is true that prenuptial agreements can make divorce easier. However, it can also serve other purposes. There are quite a few reasons that prenuptial agreements are a good idea for most couples, including: 

• Easier divorce - Protecting yourself and your spouse in the event that you do divorce one day is certainly one of the top reasons that some couples elect to sign a prenuptial agreement. While everyone wants their marriage to last forever, most marriages do not. Having a strong prenuptial agreement in place can take the sting and stress out of divorce by eliminating uncertainty and saving you time and money. 

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Retirement accounts can be among the most valuable pieces of marital property spouses possess. It is not uncommon for spouses to have much more money sitting in a 401(k) than they do in their regular bank account. Contributions made to a retirement account by either spouse during the course of a marriage are treated as marital property, just as each spouse's earnings during the marriage are. Therefore, retirement accounts are subject to equitable division during divorce. However, splitting a retirement account is not always simple. If you know that you and your spouse will need to divide the funds in a retirement account as part of your divorce, it is important that you work with an experienced divorce attorney who can help guide you toward the best option for splitting the account. 

What Are My Options for Dividing a Retirement Account?

The first step to dividing a retirement account - or any other property - is determining which portion is marital property. Any contributions one spouse may have made before marriage generally are not considered marital property, so it will need to be determined exactly how much was contributed during the marriage. From there, you may have multiple options for how exactly to split the funds, including: 

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The COVID-19 pandemic aftermath has left many people financially overwhelmed. During the height of the pandemic, both federal and state governments provided financial assistance for many, as well as put many moratoriums in effect that prevented legal actions – such as evictions and utility shutoffs – for those who did not have the funds to pay these bills. While many of those moratoriums have been lifted and federal and state assistance has stopped, people are still left facing financial hardships. Bankruptcy may be the solution, however, it is critical to be aware that certain obligations associated with divorce are specifically exempted from bankruptcy and must still be paid regardless of any financial issues.

Child Support

Child support obligations are one of those financial issues that are almost never dischargeable. The U.S. Bankruptcy Code states explicitly that “domestic support obligations” are not dischargeable, and child support falls under this category. There is sometimes confusion on this score because if you file Chapter 13, any child support arrearages do come under the Chapter 13 plan - but this does not mean these debts are dischargeable; it merely means that under a Chapter 13 repayment plan, the arrearages will be part of that plan.

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The number one priority in a child custody case is the child’s best interest. In the vast majority of cases, the court will want a child to spend some time with both parents. Unless one parent presents a demonstrable risk to the child’s wellbeing, a shared custody situation is the most likely outcome. Using collaborative divorce to reach a custody agreement is often the best option. However, when this is not possible, there are a number of factors the court will consider in order to determine what type of arrangement would be best for the child. Your attorney will be able to discuss these factors and how they apply to your case in greater detail. 

Understanding Illinois Custody Terms 

Illinois uses updated language to describe child custody. In fact, the term “custody” is not used in a legal context. It is now called “allocation of parental responsibilities.” Physical custody used to be the term used to describe which parent would physically have the child with them. This is now called “parenting time.” Having decision-making rights about the child’s upbringing was formerly called “legal custody,” but this is now termed “parenting responsibilities.” 

Both can be divided between two parents, or be awarded to one parent alone. 

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Dividing up the marital estate in an Illinois divorce is often a difficult task, but when marital property includes valuable assets, this can make asset division even more complex. If you and your spouse have decided to end your marriage but have amassed many high-value assets, you may want to seek the legal assistance of a skilled Illinois high asset divorce attorney for help in reaching a fair and appropriate divorce settlement.

Equitable Distribution

Illinois is an equitable distribution state, meaning that all marital property is divided between the spouses in the way deemed most fair for each spouse’s situation and future earning potential. With most marital assets, the question of who paid or who performed upkeep is somewhat irrelevant. Instead, the court considers who has the potential to earn more and place themselves in a better situation going forward. In many cases, a spouse who has a high-paying job and few obligations will likely end up with fewer marital assets than a spouse who makes very little and is saddled with many obligations to fulfill.

Something many spouses forget, however, is that debts are often divided along with assets during a divorce. If a debt is deemed marital, it will be assigned to the spouse most able to pay and balanced along with that spouse’s share of the assets. In other words, if a spouse is assigned to pay significant amounts of marital debt, they may receive more assets so as to ensure the distribution remains equitable.

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It is estimated that there are just under 100,000 attorneys in the state of Illinois. With so many law firms to choose from, it is critical for a potential client to know how to weed out those attorneys who will aggressively advocate for them and those that simply want to settle up cases as quickly as possible and just collect their fees.

When a person is facing serious legal issues, it is important to find the best attorney for their situation. The first step is speaking with those attorneys who specialize in the client’s needed area of law. If you have decided to end your marriage, you want to make sure you have an attorney who specializes in divorce and family law. You also want to have one that can answer the following questions in a way that will assure you that they will be looking out for your best interests.

What Is Your Experience Level?

While many think family law is a ‘safe’ or easy discipline, it is in fact extraordinarily complex. Over the past several years, the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act went through a major overhaul that affected how child custody, child support, and other family law issues are addressed. If your attorney does not have significant family law experience, consistently staying on-top of the frequent changes that have taken place, it can have a significant detrimental impact on the outcome of your case.

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 In Illinois, legal paternity is not assumed, but rather, it must be affirmatively acknowledged. It is imperative that you understand how to establish paternity so that you do not wind up with limited rights to see your children. A failure to acknowledge paternity at the appropriate time can severely restrict your right not only to see the children, but to exercise a father’s rights with regard to their lives and welfare.

Illinois Paternity Process

The procedure to formally acknowledge paternity differs, depending on whether the father is married to the child’s mother. If the couple is married at the time of the child’s birth, then the husband is presumed by law to be the father of that child, unless the father completes a Denial of Paternity form.

If the couple is not married when the child is born, and the mother is married to someone else, her husband must complete the Denial of Paternity, and both father and the mother must sign a Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity. Failure to do so will place the husband by default as the father.

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In the United States, a woman is killed as a result of domestic violence every six hours. One in four women in this country will be a victim of domestic violence at some point in their lives. Statistics show that every nine seconds, a woman is battered by her partner. Seventy-five percent of domestic violence victims have children living in their homes. Studies show that the closer a woman is to leaving and divorcing her abuser, the more dangerous the situation becomes.

At Botti Marinaccio, LTD., our legal team is well aware of these tragic statistics. If you are a victim, a family lawyer from our firm may be able to help you take legal action against your abuser.

The Effects of Domestic Violence

Domestic violence can result in complex psychological damage for the women who are its victims. Many times, they do not want their abuser arrested and jailed; they only want the abuse to stop. As a result, many victims suffer in silence for years, not sharing with anyone the abuse they are experiencing. Restraining orders can be obtained to keep the abuser away from the victim, but victims need to depend on police departments and the court system to uphold those orders.

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It is fairly common when a person is going through a divorce to vent about their frustrations about their soon-to-be-ex on social media. Many people who do this believe that since they are in control of their privacy setting, what they are posting is not “public” view, not realizing that their spouse’s attorney can actually gain legal access to these posts if they feel it would be useful evidence in the divorce. This is why it is important to be cognizant of everything you post since it could end up costing you money or even parenting time.

Understanding the Full Scope of Social Media

One of the biggest misconceptions people have about social media evidence is that they think it only applies to sites like Facebook and Instagram when it comes to divorce. However, even things like emails, text messages, and any other forms of electronic communication can be used. Whether communication is sent or viewed on a laptop or a cell phone, a family court judge can allow it to be introduced as evidence.

Text messages and private messages are especially common forms of divorce evidence. In fact, in a well-known survey conducted by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML), 97 percent of all attorneys surveyed said they had seen a significant increase in the use of text messages in divorce cases they handled.

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Many people would like to believe that once their divorce decree is final, they will never have to deal with their ex in a courtroom again. The truth of the matter, however, is that there are several issues that could come up that may necessitate a modification to the couple’s divorce judgment. Whatever the reason for the modification petition, there are requirements set forth by the state of Illinois that must be shown to the court to be granted the requested modification.

What Can Be Modified?

Under Illinois law, almost every part of a divorce decree can be modified if sufficient evidence is shown for its necessity. In the majority of cases, changes are requested due to alterations in living conditions, such as the loss of a job or a relocation. Generally, however, the most common type of change requested is support modification. In Illinois, child support, in particular, is often the subject of modification requests.

To have a modification granted, the individual requesting the change must show a substantial change in circumstances. That substantial change must be shown even if your situation is in dire need of adjustment, because without that requirement, in theory, any spouse could just appear in court and demand a change without justification.

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In today’s society, we see all types of blended families. There are often many different people who are involved in the raising of a child, including stepparents and grandparents. Unfortunately, it is also not uncommon for there to be a change in familial circumstances and because of the wishes of the child’s biological parents or other legal issues, these adults find themselves shut out of the child’s life. In some circumstances, they may have legal recourse under Illinois law.

Visitation and Blood Relatives

Under current Illinois law, a non-custodial parent is entitled to reasonable visitation rights unless the court determines visits would be determinantal or dangerous to the child’s wellbeing. The only other familial relations that the law recognizes as having a right to apply for visitation are grandparents and siblings (including stepsiblings).  

In order to obtain legal visitation rights, the grandparent or sibling needs to petition the court for visitation. However, the law does have stringent limitations under which those visitations can be granted, regardless of prior living situations or relationships the child had with the adult who is filing the petition:

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It is not uncommon after a divorce for one parent or the other to make the decision to move from the area they were living in while the divorce was taking place. If the move will only be in the same municipality or close by, then it should not pose any issues regarding the parenting plan that the ex-spouses have. But how do Illinois courts address parental relocation when one parent wants to move further away, and how much say does the other parent have?

Moving Versus Parental Relocation

Under the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (IMDMA), there is a specific geographical radius a parent may move with their children without needing the court's permission prior to that move. However, if the planned move is outside the specific radius, then the parent must give proper notice to the other parent and the court, depending on the proposed relocation.

If the parent is moving from a residence in that is further than 25 miles from the child’s current residence in the following counties, they must seek permission:

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